Hort828

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Hi, my wife and I are looking for some help with vibrates. Here is the background, we are both in our mid 60’s and still have a very active and fulfilling love life…. With each other, just her and I. Because of some medication she has been on the last several years she has more difficulty with a clitoral orgasm. The only way she can achieve a orgasm is with a rather large hand held massager, plug in not battery operated, I believe it is called a wand. We are hoping to find a smaller vibrator so we both can enjoy that part of her climax. we want to experiment with some different ones. A cord is not the problem, it is the mass of her toy we are looking to change. Thanks for any suggestion!
 
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Hi, my wife and I are looking for some help with vibrates. Here is the background, we are both in our mid 60’s and still have a very active and fulfilling love life…. With each other, just her and I. Because of some medication she has been on the last several years she has more difficulty with a clitoral orgasm. The only way she can achieve a orgasm is with a rather large hand held massager, plug in not battery operated, I believe it is called a wand. We are hoping to find a smaller vibrator so we both can enjoy that part of her climax. we want to experiment with some different ones. A cord is not the problem, it is the mass of her toy we are looking to change. Thanks for any suggestion!
Welcome to the site!

I don't know if you have tried this already, but what immediately springs to my mind is to try an air powered toy like the Womanizer. I'm yet to hear from a vulva owner who this doesn't find it effective, and they are pretty compact. Most of the manufacturers have a versions and they are all much smaller than a wand.




Another alternative to an air powered toy would be a powerful compact vibe like the We-Vibe Touch.


Good luck and let us know how it goes!
 
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I second the Womanizer. I think it is about the only toy that can hold its own next to a plug-in wand!
 

LashofSpanking

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Welcome to the site!

I don't know if you have tried this already, but what immediately springs to my mind is to try an air powered toy like the Womanizer. I'm yet to hear from a vulva owner who this doesn't find it effective, and they are pretty compact. Most of the manufacturers have a versions and they are all much smaller than a wand.




Another alternative to an air powered toy would be a powerful compact vibe like the We-Vibe Touch.


Good luck and let us know how it goes!
To my mind, it's a decent recommendation. We're both from the beginning of the '80s, and a bullet vibrator(this) is helpful for my wife.
Cheers and all the best!
 

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To my mind, it's a decent recommendation. We're both from the beginning of the '80s, and a bullet vibrator(this) is helpful for my wife.
Cheers and all the best!
Yes We-Vibe Tango is a good pick!

There is also now its successor, the Tango X