I mostly use Hismith es sex toys. I use it once or twice a month and only when my partner is not with me. Sex toys have many benefits too and truly, it has shifted sexual pleasure to the next level.
I don’t use toys for myself, but use toys on my wife. She doesn’t like using them herself so it’s good couples foreplay. We use toys a couple times a week. Main ones we use is a wand and a curved g-spot dildo, and use them together.